There are 2 possibilities.
Nonetheless, one day or other, these quite people will erupt like volcanoes to punish the oppressor.
“Beauty perishes in life, but is immortal in art” -Leonardo da Vinci
Human beings take all efforts to look pleasant and presentable. And, try all methods like physical and food restrictions. Yet they have no control to retain their appearance or beauty as they desire. Because, by nature, all humans undergo ageing and reach end of life.
However, the photographs or painting of the humans remain to exhibit their beauty as immortal.
Taj mahal stands as a monument of Beauty of love though the persons behind such architecture are no more.
Humans are very strange species. They laugh when a new born cries. They cry when a person is dead.
The logic might be this. They are happy when a new member arrives and laments when somebody leaves others behind after creating all kinds of relationships and memories to those alive.
Another funny reason might be. They enjoy the birth of a new soul as if they get another companion to share the sufferings in worldly life. They grieve when a soul passes away, because they are made to suffer longer .
People having immoral values and selfishness alone resort to such behaviour.
Any normal and right thinking person will not practice such tricks.
Such behaviour is quiet common in commercial and political circles the world over.
There are people so cheap who plant such lies to defeat their own kith and kin.
As long as a person is hurt by another person’s action or words, the latter shall seek apology. Because, the sufferings and insults cannot be rectified.
No matter whether it is deliberate or accidental.
Any genuine human will need to say sorry, and if possible try to redress the damage inflicted.
This moral principle is applicable to all forms of life, be it bird or animal. That’s why we tend to feel upset emotionally, even when we see a dog hurt by vehicle on the road.
After all, humans take pride in their Sixth sense but behave irrationally. For instance, during this Corona pandemic, nobody cares for social distancing.
Give a straight and honest answer as “ Sorry, I do not lend/borrow money to/from anyone. So, kindly excuse for the helplessness.”
The above reply will make your stand clear that you will never approach anybody for money.
People generally like flattery and hate criticism. That too, if one speaks the truth about anything or a person right in front of others, most people get infuriated and agitated.
Because, such people feel their pride insulted when their mistakes or deficiencies are pointed out by others. In other words, they are intolerant, and never mind their mistakes to correct them. Instead, They possess false ego and develop hatred towards those revealing their shortcomings, and wait for opportunities to criticise the other person.
Unless an individual realises the fault on their side, and make efforts to avoid recurrence of such incidents or mistakes, That person is bound to gain less progress in life.
I have listed a few things that I consider most important.
Ask the person as to the purpose of seeking money. If it is for food or clothes or medicine, try to buy such items by yourself and give to them( if you can afford).
If the purpose is to meet daily needs, better guide him to either find some works to earn with own efforts or approach a social service organisation who will have permanent solution to such poor people.
Never ever help a person with money as it becomes a habit involving laziness and carelessness.